We all have problems in our lives, big or small. But what sets you apart from everyone else is your  ability to focus on solutions instead of problems. It’s easy to get bogged down in the negativity of a situation, but by shifting our perspective and thinking outside the box, we can find solutions that we never even considered before. In this article, we’ll explore some tips and tricks for focusing on solutions and turning even the most challenging situations into opportunities for growth and success.


Flipping the Script


When we encounter a problem, our first instinct is often to dwell on it and complain about how unfair life is. But this kind of thinking only serves to reinforce the problem and make it seem even bigger than it actually is. To focus on solutions, we need to flip the script and approach the problem from a different angle.

One way to do this is to ask yourself, “What’s the opposite of this problem?” For example, if you’re struggling to find a job, the opposite of that problem is having multiple job offers. This technique is based on the simple principle that our thoughts create our reality. When we focus on the negative, we attract more negativity into our lives. But when we focus on the positive, we create a more positive reality for ourselves.

So, how do you find the opposite of a problem?


Here are a few tips:

  • Identify the core of the problem. What is the underlying issue that is causing you pain or difficulty? Once you know the core of the problem, you can start to brainstorm solutions.
  • Think about what the opposite of the problem would look like. What would your life be like if you didn’t have this problem? What would you be doing differently? How would you be feeling?
  • Break the problem down into smaller steps. This will make it seem less daunting and more manageable.
  • Visualize yourself overcoming the problem. See yourself achieving your goals and living the life you want.
  • Take action. Don’t just sit around and dream about solving your problems. Take steps to make it happen.


Here are some examples of opposites of problems:

  • Problem: I’m not making enough money.
  • Opposite: I’m making a lot of money.
  • Problem: I’m not happy in my relationship.
  • Opposite: I’m in a loving and fulfilling relationship.
  • Problem: I’m not healthy.
  • Opposite: I’m healthy and fit.

Of course, the opposite of a problem is not always something that is easily attainable. But by focusing on the opposite, you can start to shift your mindset and open yourself up to new possibilities.


Here are some additional tips for using the “opposite of the problem” technique:

  • Be specific. The more specific you can be about the opposite of your problem, the easier it will be to visualize and achieve it.
  • Be positive. Focus on the positive aspects of the opposite of your problem, rather than the negative aspects of your current situation.
  • Be patient. It takes time and effort to overcome problems. Don’t get discouraged if you don’t see results immediately.

The Power of Reframing


Reframing is a powerful tool for focusing on solutions instead of problems. It involves taking a negative situation and looking at it from a more positive perspective. 

There are many different ways to reframe a situation.


Here are a few examples:

  • Find the silver lining. This is one of the most common ways to reframe a situation. When you find the silver lining, you focus on the positive aspects of a situation, even if they are small. For example, if you’re stuck in traffic, you might focus on the fact that you have some extra time to listen to your favorite music or catch up on a podcast.
  • Change your perspective. Sometimes, all you need to do to reframe a situation is to change your perspective. This means looking at the situation from a different angle. For example, if you’re feeling stressed about a presentation, you might try to imagine yourself giving the presentation to a group of friends or family members. This can help you to feel more relaxed and confident.
  • Focus on the positive. When you’re feeling overwhelmed by a negative situation, it can be helpful to focus on the positive aspects of your life. This could include your health, your relationships, your job, or your hobbies. Focusing on the positive can help you to feel more grateful and less stressed.
  • Use humor. Humor can be a powerful tool for reframing a situation. When you find something funny about a situation, it can help you to see it in a new light. For example, if you’re feeling embarrassed about something you said, you might try to find a way to make light of it. (The use of humor is often overlooked as an effective strategy to deal with stress, which is why I’ve incorporated it into my burnout keynote which I co-present with a stand-up comedian).
  • Take a break. Sometimes, the best way to reframe a situation is to take a break from it. This could mean taking a few minutes to relax, or it could mean taking a few days away from the situation altogether. Sometimes, all you need is some distance to clear your head and come back to the situation with a fresh perspective.

Reframing is a skill that takes practice. The more you do it, the easier it will become. And the more you practice, the more likely you are to find solutions to your problems and maintain a positive attitude.


Here are some additional tips for reframing a situation:

  • Be patient. It takes time and practice to change your mindset. Don’t get discouraged if you don’t see results immediately.
  • Be gentle with yourself. It’s okay to have negative thoughts sometimes. Just don’t dwell on them.
  • Be creative. There are many different ways to reframe a situation. Don’t be afraid to experiment and find what works best for you.


Breaking the Problem Down


Sometimes, problems can seem overwhelming and insurmountable. But by breaking them down into smaller, more manageable pieces, we can make them more approachable and easier to solve.

To break a problem down, start by identifying the root cause. Then, brainstorm possible solutions and break them down into smaller steps. This will help you stay focused and motivated, and make the problem feel less daunting overall.


Here are some steps on how to break down a problem:

  1. Identify the problem. What is the specific problem that you are trying to solve? Be as specific as possible.
  2. Brainstorm possible solutions. Once you know what the problem is, brainstorm as many possible solutions as you can. Don’t worry about whether or not the solutions are realistic at this point. Just get all of your ideas down on paper.
  3. Break down the solutions into smaller steps. Once you have a few possible solutions, break them down into smaller steps. This will make them seem less daunting and more achievable.
  4. Estimate the time and resources required for each step. Once you have broken the solutions down into smaller steps, estimate how much time and resources each step will require. This will help you to create a realistic timeline and budget for solving the problem.
  5. Take action. Once you have a plan, take action and start working on solving the problem. Don’t be afraid to ask for help if you need it.




Brainstorming is a classic problem-solving technique that involves generating a large number of ideas in a short amount of time. This can be a great way to get the creative juices flowing and come up with innovative solutions to even the toughest problems.

To brainstorm effectively, set aside some dedicated time and get as many ideas down on paper as possible. Don’t worry about whether they’re good or bad – just focus on generating as many ideas as possible. Once you have a list of potential solutions, you can start to narrow them down and figure out which ones are most feasible.


Here are some tips for brainstorming effectively:

  • Set a clear goal. What are you trying to achieve with your brainstorming session? Having a clear goal will help you stay focused and on track.
  • Encourage wild ideas. The crazier the idea, the better. Don’t judge any ideas at this stage. Just get them all out on the table.
  • Quantity over quality. Don’t worry about whether your ideas are good or bad. The more ideas you have, the better.
  • Build on each other’s ideas. Once you have a few ideas, start building on each other’s ideas. This can help you come up with even more creative solutions.
  • Take breaks. Brainstorming can be mentally taxing. Take breaks throughout the session. The last thing we’d want is to have this turn into burnout!
  • Have fun. Brainstorming should be enjoyable. If you’re not having fun, you’re less likely to come up with creative ideas.


The Power of Positive Thinking


Finally, it’s important to remember the power of positive thinking when it comes to focusing on solutions. Positive thinking is a mental attitude that focuses on the good things in life and expects positive outcomes. It is a powerful tool that can help us to overcome challenges and achieve our goals.


There are many benefits to positive thinking, including:

  • Improved mental and physical health. Studies have shown that positive thinking can lead to lower levels of stress, anxiety, and depression. It can also boost the immune system and improve cardiovascular health.
  • Increased resilience. Positive thinking can help us to bounce back from setbacks and challenges. It can also help us to stay motivated and focused on our goals.
  • Enhanced problem-solving skills. When we are positive, we are more likely to see problems as challenges to be overcome, rather than obstacles to be defeated. This can lead to better problem-solving skills and outcomes.
  • Improved relationships. Positive thinking can make us more likable and approachable. It can also help us to resolve conflict more effectively.
  • Greater happiness and satisfaction with life. Positive thinking can lead to a more positive outlook on life and a greater sense of happiness and satisfaction.


Here are some tips for cultivating a positive attitude:

  • Focus on the good things in your life. Take time each day to reflect on the things you’re thankful for, no matter how small they may seem.
  • Practice gratitude. Gratitude is a powerful emotion that can boost your mood and make you feel more positive. There are many ways to practice gratitude, such as keeping a gratitude journal or writing a letter of gratitude to someone you appreciate.
  • Challenge negative thoughts. When you have a negative thought, challenge it with a more positive one. For example, if you think “I’m never going to get this job,” challenge that thought with “I’m going to do my best and see what happens.”
  • Visualize success. Take some time each day to visualize yourself achieving your goals. This will help you to stay motivated and focused on your dreams.
  • Surround yourself with positive people. The people we spend time with have a big impact on our mood and outlook on life. Surround yourself with positive people who will support you and help you to stay positive.

Positive thinking is a skill that takes practice. The more you practice, the easier it will become to stay positive and focused on solutions. And the more you practice, the more likely you are to achieve your goals and live a happy and fulfilling life.




Focusing on solutions instead of problems is a powerful way to overcome challenges and achieve our goals. When we focus on problems, we tend to get stuck in a negative mindset. We may feel overwhelmed, helpless, and hopeless. But when we focus on solutions, we open ourselves up to new possibilities. We become more creative and resourceful. We are more likely to find solutions that work for us.

There are many tools and techniques that can help us to focus on solutions. Some of these include flipping the script, reframing a situation, breaking down a problem into smaller steps, brainstorming, and harnessing the power of positive thinking. These tools and techniques will help you overcome challenges and achieve your goals.

So the next time you encounter a problem, remember that there is always a solution out there, waiting to be found. Don’t give up. Keep searching until you find it. And remember, the journey to finding a solution is just as important as the solution itself.


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Dr. Sharon Grossman, AKA the Burnout Doc, is a clinically trained psychologist and subject matter expert in burnout and mental health. Associations and Fortune 500 companies hire her to be their closing keynote speaker, to help their members and executives crack the code on burnout, and create custom-tailored solutions for recovery.
Over the past 20 years, Dr. Sharon has been helping high achievers who are struggling with anxiety, overwhelm, and burnout go from exhausted to extraordinary by better understanding how their brain works and how they can design and run their programming on purpose to live the kind of life they want to live. She is the author of several books on burnout and mindset and host of the Decode Your Burnout podcast. Through her speaking, training, and coaching, she helps organizations keep their top talent.